You sometimes think after a few times it’s not to bad because you can get over it. Yes it hurts. But it makes you stronger however it makes you think you can’t trust anyone.
Then you get constant let downs by guys who stood you up for no reasons or a lame excuse or something. That’s when you start to think is it me? Is it me that they don’t want to spend time with? Have I done something wrong?
That’s when you start to have your own doubts in your own head. That’s when you have to chose to survive and fight or give up and wollow.
The best song for this is survival by Muse this is because the music and the words have meanings behind it. To the point of helps train your mind to not give up and you are not ready to loose. You are going to win.